My Honest Book Review – Just Ask by Sonia Sotomayor
As far back as I can remember, I have always had a love for reading. I love being able to pick up a book and immediately be transplanted to a different time or place. As a child, reading was a way of escape for me, a way to live vicariously through someone else.
It was very easy for me to identify with characters in the books I read because a lot of them were just like me. A white girl from suburbia with a two-parent household. I never knew how much I took that for granted. I never knew that there were other kids who longed to have a literary character that they could relate to. One whose life resembled their own.
Over the past few years I have realized just how hard it is to find books that have characters that represent all types of people from all kinds of backgrounds. After we adopted our daughter I tried to find a book for her that would explain adoption in a way that would resonate with her specific adoption story. Fast forward to four years later and I still haven’t found the right book. I’ve come to the conclusion that I may just have to write my own.
When I ran across Sonia Sotomayor’s book Just Ask at the library, I had no idea that I was going to fall in love with it. Sotomayor starts the book with a letter to the reader introducing herself and explaining why she wrote this book. When she was seven years old she was diagnosed with diabetes, and as a result always felt like she was ‘different.’
She goes on to explain that she wrote the book to “explain how differences make us stronger in a good way.”
The book begins with a group of children who have gathered together to start a garden. Sotomayor highlights the physical differences between plants and that they need different things to help them grow.
The remainder of the book introduces the characters and each one has something about them that makes them ‘different.’ Each character has an entire page dedicated to their story, and Sotomayor brilliantly does two things. First, she states something noticeable about the difference and then proceeds to highlight something positive about that difference, in essence making the character seem cool or unique.
For example, one child is blind. So the character explains that while they cannot see with their eyes, their other senses are heightened.
I was very impressed with the long list of differences that she highlights in her book. The list includes diabetes, asthma, needing a wheelchair, blind, deaf, dyslexia, autism, stutter, ADHD, Tourette’s syndrome, food allergies and down syndrome.
Each character also reinforces the idea of the book title, “Just Ask.” The character encourages the reader to just ask if you have questions about what you see or if there’s something you don’t understand. The reader is encouraged to ask the person themselves or ask their parents.
I love that in Just Ask, Sotomayor is inspiring the reader to not be scared of things that are different but to just ask and gain knowledge and insight by learning about the differences instead.
At the end of the book, Just Ask, Sotomayor adeptly goes back and ties in the garden analogy from the beginning of the book. It would not be good if the garden only had one type of vegetable. If your garden was only full of carrots you would miss out on all of the other wonderful vegetables out there like tomatoes, green beans, and potatoes. By the same token, if everyone in the world was the same then we would miss out on so many beautiful things. Everyone has something unique to contribute to the world.
What other books have you read that highlight our differences in a positive light?
41 Comments
Yvette
As someone who advocates for children with differences, this book is an excellent start, but I have found that these ‘different’ kids are still bullied, made fun of and exclude on a regular basis. It’s my hope that the message of this book will get into parents heads and as a result THEY will be more understanding too.
Sara W
Yes! I completely agree. This book is a great start in planting a seed though.
Tiffany
I have been buying books like this one for my little nieces and nephews for the holidays – hoping to have a good collection for them by then! Can’t wait to add this one to the pile!
Sara W
I love books that have a positive message for kids.
Danielle Ardizzone
Sounds like an amazing book! We can all learn to be a little more patient and accepting these days. Thanks!
Sara W
So true.
Douglas Jasper
I like the comparison with the differences in plants.
Holly
Amazing review! Such a perfect read for many children and adults.. love this!
Lisa Manderino
Sounds like a great book!
Kirsten
That sounds like a really great book I’m going to need to add to my library asap. Thanks for sharing!
Linda Egeler
I have a great deal of respect for Sonia Sotomayor, but was unaware that she had written a children’s book. It sounds great: I will definitely share this with my school librarian.
Sara W
This is a book that should definitely be in all school libraries.
Kendra
I love this! I agree too! My son was born with an eye condition that makes his eye look very different. I always appreciated when someone would just ask instead of giving us the weird stares.
Sara W
I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with that. I’m trying to teach my children to know how to acknowledge things they aren’t familiar with in positive ways. I’m sure they won’t always get things right, but I’m hopeful.
Stacey Billingsley
This sounds like an amazing book! I wonder if my daughter’s school library can get it. I think it would be a great addition!
Sara W
This would be a great book for a school library. I found it at our public library.
Debbie
Such a nice reminder. Sometimes we don’t appreciate our own differences bc we are always comparing ourselves and trying to measure up instead of being contently uniquely different.
Sara W
So true.
Alice
Wow that’s an awesome book especially for children. I am also an adoptive mon and I understand the struggles adopted kids have.
Sandi
It’s wonderful to find a book that resonates with you.
heather J jandrue
What a great book. I am going to check it out. Thank you. When my son was diagnosed with ADHD in second grade, we bought a book called All Dogs have ADHD. It explained what it was so well.
Sara W
I’ll have to check out the book. Thanks for recommending it.
Cathy
Sounds like a good book! Thanks for the review!
Heather
This book sounds amazing! I am definitely putting it on my list of books to have for my kids and for myself!
Sara W
It’s such a great read.
Suzan | It's My Sustainable Life
Thank you for the review! Love her quote!!
Sara W
You’re welcome.
Eva Keller
That’s a great book idea! I’m sure lots of kids get so excited when they identify with someone in a book when they’ve never been able to before.
Sara W
Those were my thoughts too. There are so many “differences” covered in this book too, so lots of kids could see themselves in this book.
Cindy
Sounds like a wonderful and much needed book!
Sara W
Yes, definitely something important to teach your kids.
Raisa
Thanks for making this review! Love it! 🙂
Sara W
You’re welcome.
Jennifer Van Haitsma
This sounds like an amazing book! I will have to add this to my little ones’ collection. Thanks for the recommendation!
Sara W
You’re welcome.
Catherine
I’d love to get this book for my girls – they enjoy reading and this sounds like just the book for them., especially since there are so many good lessons to be learned here. Thanks for sharing.
Sara W
Definitely lots of good lessons in this book.
Sara
This sounds great! I love the theme it promotes. Thanks for sharing.
Sara W
You’re welcome.
Aliya
This book sounds amazing. I’ll definitely be looking into this book for my daughter. Thank for sharing.
Sara W
You’re welcome.